Across the road from a detached duplex, I could hear a man shout at his wife, “what do you want from me?” This is the question many men are asking their wives. What exactly does a woman want from his husband? What does ladies want from their husband to be? What are the most important things women desire from their husbands?
Everyman must first know that women all over the world are the same and their inner being cries out, desiring to be satisfied with some basic intangible provisions. First, they look up to their husband for this satisfaction. Any man who does not understand what this inner cry is all about will be making a big mistake.
In this article, I will help you understand what a woman want from their husband.
Purpose and fulfilment
Truly, women want love, a lot of rose, but they are not just looking for love. They are not looking for sex or a sex machine. They are not looking for promises, clothes and shoes or just a man who will sit around them and tell them stories. While love, sex, clothes, shoes and story tellers give good feeling, women are looking for something deeper. What is it that they really want?
Women are looking for a man with purpose and direction. They are looking for a man they can trust, follow and achieve something meaningful in their own live. Sincerely, all women desire to be with a man that has direction and destination for his life no matter how small. They are willing to die for a man whose purpose gives meaning to their own lives. That is what brings submission out of a woman. That is what brings out commitment out of a woman.
Nothing is more frustrating to a woman than to live with a man who has no purpose or direction for his life. For woman, watching a man she calls a husband grope in confusion without direction makes her become grossly disrespectful, frustrated and depressed.
When a woman observes that her husband has no purpose for his life, she begins to create one for herself. She strives to find purpose for herself, because every creation of God must fulfill purpose.
When a woman seeks to create a purpose for herself, knowing that her husband has no purpose for himself, it creates all sorts of problems for the man and the family. Some men become uncomfortable and jealous, while some feel disrespected. This is the reason why some men rage in anger and beat their wives.
Life without purpose is worse than death. No matter how handsome a man is, he has no true meaning to a woman if he has no purpose for his life. After the early days of love yoyo and sex extravaganza, the reality of seeking meaning comes. The woman will sure ask, “what next do you have for me?” If the man has nothing of purpose to present before her, then he gradually lose her. At this point, the woman would eventually ask the man, “Why are you alive?”
For this reason, a man should never get into marriage union without a clear understanding of his life purpose.
Before you make a marriage proposal or go to the altar, ask God to reveal your purpose to you.
Have you seen the way daughters cling around their fathers? It is amazing that all little girls grow up clinging around their father, more than their mothers. This is the natural frame with which women are created.
Women are created to crave for affection and strength. They find it in their fathers. One of the most important thing women look for in a man is fatherhood. Women look for a man with the spirit of a true father. While in her parent’s house, a lady will naturally seek affection from her father. When she gets married, she expects her husband becomes a father to her. So many men do not understand this deep cry within their newly married wife. If a lady cannot get that fatherly attention from her husband, she withdraws, starts complaining about everything. She start calling her father’s phone number to complain, then trouble starts.
And He answered and said to them, “Have you not read that He who [a]made them at the beginning ‘made them male and female,’ 5 and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? 6 So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.” (Matthew 19:4).
A woman never leaves his father. It is the man that leaves his father. When the woman marries, the husband becomes the new father. Fatherly affection reflects who God is for us.