MEN OF VALOUR SINGLES
You say you want an intellectual woman. Where are you going to find her? Do you attend business or networking events? Perhaps get a professional degree or certification where you will meet like-minded people.
So the big question is: are you fishing in the right pond? Are you moving around in the right circles? You may need to jump ships to find another specie of being to be around and associate with.
Be willing to make the changes!