Character – Unleash the Man in You
It’s very unfortunate that most people make choices based on appearances instead of character. Until we realize that appearance does not keep marriage, we will continue to make wrong choices. Beauty or cuteness without character is a disgrace to one’s creation. Under this factor you must consider the person’s ability to handle difficult situations, honesty, compatibility, trust, true love, faithfulness, humility, care, attention, affection etc. Dear Men, we must realize that what keeps a relationship or marriage is invisible.
Be impeccable with your words. Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using words to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your words in the direction of Truth and Love.
“Why did….?” “Why didn’t….?” “Why couldn’t….?” “Why can’t….?” “If only I….?” “If only he/she/they….?” “If only God….?” Those words are normal and understandable at the initial, but hopefully not continuous. If you will open your eyes and your heart, you will see things after making the wrong turn you haven’t seen before, including a fresh and different view of God. It is a reality that we can never exhaust the love, mercy and grace of God which ultimately gives us hope when we are in hard place; and gives us the desire to resume our journey regardless the difficulty or time wasted. Dear Men of Valour, Respond instead of Reacting. Give things time. Give God time. What you see as a failure, an injustice, or a disaster my end up being a right turn in the long term. Hallelujah!