3 Reasons why men should marry only women who will help build their vision
The success of a man’s marriage starts from the basis of his choice of who to marry. The basis of the choice of marriage partner must be focused on the primary purpose of marriage, which is to raise a dominion fulfilling generation through unity, and team work. Wrong choice of marriage partner leads to regrets, sorry and even divorce. For this reason, a man MUST never marry a lady who cannot come into his vision and help him build it. This is why…
It is the purpose for marriage
Ladies are very powerful vision builders. They are smart, energetic and can multitask. They have the power to multiply whatever is given to them. God’s intention for giving ladies these special gifts is for one primary purpose, which is to provide help to the men, to enable them (both man and woman) fulfill the dominion mandate given to humanity.
And the Lord God said, “It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him.” (Genesis 1:18).
God’s plan for marriage is that the man and his wife will work together to dominate the earth. A marriage where the woman has a separate vision from that of the man will never fulfill the purpose of marriage.
It is the key for a working marriage
For a marriage to work, the vision of the woman MUST align with the vision of the man. Selfishness must die. When there are two visions, the man on one side and the woman on the other side, it is called di-vision. No marriage will work with di-vision. This is a warning to all men! Do not marry a lady who cannot come into your vision and help you build it. I have written that one of the most important thing a man needs before marriage is his purpose. Read: 3 Most important things a man should know before marriage. It is important that you let the woman know you vision before getting married. It does not mean that the lady must work for you or that she becomes your servant. NO! It means that whatever the lady is trained to do, where, when and how she does it must align with the primary vision of the man in pursing the building a strong and prosperous family. This is the key!
When the vision of the man and his wife are aligned, the family is preserved. It is for the preservation family that God laid the order, that the man should be head of the family and the woman should be helping mate. When this order is broken, the family cannot be preserved.
It preserves the generation of the family
For the generation of the family to be preserved, the man and his wife must work towards a common vision. Families where the man and his wife run divided vision will eventual scatter. Remember Lot and his wife. In the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah, Lot’s vision was to escape the impending doom without looking back as commanded by the angels. His wife had another vision. Her vision was to secure her earrings and necklaces from Sodom (Genesis 19:26). While Lot was running, looking forward, the wife was looking backward and turned into a pillar of salt instantly. Lot lost his wife, but escaped Sodom with his two daughters. He later impregnated his two daughters and had two male children, Moab and Ammon who were later cursed. They all perished. Lots family was closed for ever.
Do not marry a lady who will be looking back when your vision is to look forward. The wise woman builds her house, But the foolish pulls it down with her hands (Proverbs 14:1)
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