3 Reasons a man should not marry a lady who does not need his provision
It is natural for a woman to ask for provision from her husband. If a woman does not ask for provisions from her husband, then the marriage no longer exists. As a man, do not marry a woman who does not need you to provide for her. This is why…
Provision is the responsibility and authority of the man
The word father comes from a Hebrew word, Abba, which means source. A father is the one who becomes a source of provision. A father sustains everything that comes out of him. The primary responsibility of a husband/father is to provide for his family. The authority of a man is derived from his ability and commitment to provide for his family. Also, the joy of a father is that he can provide for the needs of his wife and children. Simply said, there is no fatherhood without provision. When a man marries a woman who does not need his provision, the man’s authority as a husband/father is destroyed. The man cannot function well in the home. Do not marry a lady who does not need your provision.
It is a sign that the woman will not be submissive
When a lady is too rich, too comfortable or too proud that she does not depend on her husband for anything, her natural ability for submission is broken. No matter how rich a lady is, CEO, Bank manager, Judge, Business Mogul, and whatever, if she would be your wife, she must ask for provision from her husband, her source. It may be a little thing that the man can give, but she must cherish it as if it is worth everything. A woman who does not need anything from her husband is not a wife, she has become a husband to herself.
Some ladies, even after being married run back to their parents and old boy friends for provision. A woman who depends on her father, friends, or relatives for her needs when her husband is capable of doing so is not a wife. No man can marry such a woman and be happy. Do not marry a lady you who does not need your provision.
It is a sign of no commitment
As a man, do not be offended when your wife is asking you to provide for all her needs. It shows that she is committed to you spirit, soul and body. If she is not asking you for her provision, someone else is providing for her. Her loyalty and commitment is towards that source of provision. Do not marry a lady you who does not need your provision.
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